Have you ever felt your stomach groan with hunger? In those situations, your body was crying out for some food. Yet, how often have you consumed chocolate candy out of desperation or convenience, just to get rid of those hunger pangs we all did several times. What happens?

Chocolate Highsinitially, feeding your empty stomach with chocolate feels great. The ache goes away, your hunger disappears, and all of the sugar and caffeine gives you the sensation of feeling high. so much that you wonder why you don't eat chocolate for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

But thirty minutes later, however, everything changes. A sharper pain than the one before grips your stomach, and your head becomes dizzy. All of your pleasant feelings degenerate into discomfort may be worse than your original hunger.
What caused this pain to result?

Was there something wrong with the chocolate? No. Chocolate candy is safe to eat, but it doesn't contain the nutrients necessary for your body to survive. Therefore, when you are hungry, chocolate alone cannot help you. Instead, it makes you feel worse. As for your body it must receive a steady diet of nutritious food. Then you can enjoy chocolate as a fun dessert. However, you will get sick if you try to live solely on chocolate.

Unfortunately, many couples enter relationships by eating chocolate on an empty stomach. They approach one another with hungry hearts, hoping that the other person will feed them. Like girls when you have a ready-made emotions to be paste on the first suitable guy. Guys don't get high you do that too !

It shows especially acute when a man or woman feels lonely or starved for acceptance. Without love, people become desperate for something to fill the void inside their hearts. A romance, with its potentially sweet taste seems the likely solution to that hunger.

Human affection may taste good, but, like chocolate, it cannot give our hearts what they need for survival. The true hunger of our hearts is to be accepted unconditionally. We need more than just attention, friendship. We long for someone to love us despite our faults, mistakes, and imperfections. Our hearts remain hollow when no one completely accepts us.

Unconditional loveHumans, however, cannot give each other unconditional love. We get upset or impatient when someone fails to make us happy. Furthermore, we base our love for someone on how well they perform. The root of this problem is conflicts, and disappointments. No one is accepting, patient, and forgiving all of the time.

Therefore, human love is like chocolate because the pleasure doesn't last. None of us have the ability to accept people unconditionally. Well i'm talking about it while i'm the first one who keep doing that. I don't mean to sound fatalistic, but we must acknowledge the reality that human love is performance-based. It always has been and always will be. You can date anyone in this world, but that person cannot give your heart the unconditional acceptance that it craves.

This truth also applies in marriage. Someone once asked a pastor, "What is your wife's opinion of you?"
He replied, "It depends on what day you ask her !!

He is right some days she loves him. Other days, he just drives her crazy, and she wonders why she married him.
People don't get frustrated by my words the only truth I know is that god is the only Person who loves us regardless of how we act.

Is marriage the answer?

How many of your married friends warn you that marriage is tougher than you think? Yet, how many of your single friends complain of feeling incomplete without a spouse?
We just neglect what our hearts really need and attempt to satisfy ourselves with a romance. we try to live on an unhealthy diet of chocolate. But our hearts cannot survive under the demands of performance-based love. We inevitably burn out, wear out, or drop out, from trying to please others.

Look it didn't work for many guys as they required too much of a woman, or women expected too much of them. I mean they were sincere in their desire for lasting love, but they couldn't make it happen.

Real love is out thereYou don’t need a new set of dating techniques. A perfect love waits to delight you. This love, however, cannot soothe the ache within your heart until you stop chasing after romantic passion. The hunger in your heart is for real passion.

Wait for it and search wisely don't get rush it won't kill you to wait a little more for it, but it will if you chose the wrong person.