Men - Women eternally conflict

Men and women are completely different. They share life, but they live in two different worlds. One of the most interesting sources that attempt to explain this complex relationship is the bestseller “ Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus“ by Dr. John Gray. Let me show you the most important points of this book we'll have a succinct review of each chapter.

One of the main points the book discusses is THE ACCEPTANCE OF THE OTHER. In order to have a successful relationship you have to accept the other as is. Your attempts to change your partner to become a copy of you, will only lead to a dead end. No one changes completely, you might try to change small actions or trivial habits of your partner but deep inside he will always remain the same. These attempts however, impair the relation as you expect your partner to do things your way. Meanwhile he can't figure out why you can't accept him the way he is.

Communicate: To lead a peaceful life, you have to communicate regularly with your partner. Without communication, small problems tend to convert into insolvable ones. But it's not just about talking to each other; it's about how you communicate. Sometimes a woman may have some issues she wants to talk about with her man. Although, the guy tries to immediately find a solution to what she says, they still both end up disappointed. Because sometimes women just need to talk and confide in someone. She just needed a shoulder to cry on. She doesn't expect him to found a solution for every problem but she needs him to listen just to listen.

Another important point the book mentioned was the huge number of divorces and how this number escalated by time over the last few years. I think it's a matter of expectations. Years ago women only wanted a good provider, and men fulfilled this need so they lived happily. Now women are more independent, they don’t need men for financial support, so they want love, intimacy and romance. They expect to share their dreams and hopes, mainly to share their lives.

Unfortunately, with the years men didn’t catch up to the idea of providing romance and intimacy. A man can be ready to sacrifice his life for his wife but he is not ready to buy her flowers from time to another he is not ready to make up with her in a romantic way she expects. The problem is she's not happy and neither is he, so they get a divorce.Another point of difference between men and women is what they each want of a relationship. Women want love, romance, and an ever lasting relationship. For men this isn't the case. Men may need love, romance, but also they need to catch the control to be the one who lead the relationship. And when the woman refuses to be inferior he accuses her with the everlasting accusation she is Dull. Men just really want to feel successful in fulfilling inferior

Of course I'm not to say that all men are the same sometimes this whole situation is getting upside down but as for this I need your comments whether what I'm saying is the fact or it's just an exaggeration.